{"id":47373,"date":"2017-10-19T14:30:57","date_gmt":"2017-10-19T18:30:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/brocku.ca\/brock-news\/?p=47373"},"modified":"2017-10-19T16:22:55","modified_gmt":"2017-10-19T20:22:55","slug":"a-brock-alum-40-years-in-the-making","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/brocku.ca\/brock-news\/2017\/10\/a-brock-alum-40-years-in-the-making\/","title":{"rendered":"A Brock alum, 40 years in the making"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span class=\"page-intro dropcap\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When Donna Phelps left her hometown of Columbus, Ohio, in 1977 to start a four-year program in California, she never imagined it would be almost 40 years to the day before she graduated.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The administrative assistant for Brock\u2019s Department of Computer Science dreamed of becoming a photojournalist and set her sights on California after working for a year to finance her schooling. Not long after her freshman year, Phelps was forced to return to her hometown when her program was unexpectedly cut short and the school later closed. It was the first of many setbacks and challenges that Phelps would face while pursuing her degree.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fast forward to Friday, Oct. 13 when Phelps walked across the stage at Brock\u2019s Fall Convocation, an experience she describes as \u201cvery emotional and overwhelming.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_47375\" style=\"width: 410px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-47375\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\" wp-image-47375\" src=\"https:\/\/brocku.ca\/brock-news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Donna-Phelps-2-1050x788.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"400\" height=\"300\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-47375\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Donna Phelps, an administrative assistant for Brock\u2019s Department of Computer Science, celebrated with friends Jimmy Ashimadi, left, and Audrey Opoku-Amankwaah, centre, during Fall Convocation on Friday, Oct. 13.<\/p><\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cWhen they said, \u2018you\u2019re all alumni now\u2019 \u2013 that moment hit me the hardest,\u201d Phelps said. \u201cI arrived. A weight was lifted off my shoulders. It was quite a journey to get there and it was pretty special.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Phelps\u2019 path to becoming a Brock alum has not been easy. Despite all odds, her achievement is the result of unwavering dedication and determination.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Upon returning home from her time in California, she enrolled in part-time studies at Ohio State University, working two jobs to support herself. In 1981, she got married and moved to the Niagara region. A mother of four, Phelps put her own studies on hold to stay home with her children until 1996 when she enrolled in a Computer Skills Lifetime Learning course.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There she proved herself to be a dedicated student, learning programs like Word 5.1 in three weeks from a book she purchased at the library. Her resolve, coupled with volunteer work, enabled her to re-enter the workforce.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In 1999, Phelps was hired for a temporary position at Brock. The role not only marked the start of her career at the University, but also granted her another opportunity to continue her studies.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cI always wanted to go back to school,\u201d Phelps said. \u201cI never gave up the dream. It was always a dream of mine. Always a goal.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Phelps enrolled in Brock\u2019s Interactive Arts and Science program, perfectly suited for someone with a creative side and a love of computers, dating back to her brother\u2019s Commodore 64. The experience has taken her full circle, blending elements of her past mass communications classes with gaming and game theory.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A few years into her degree, Phelps\u2019 long-time marriage ended. This triggered memories of previous traumatic situations and her personal life and mental health suffered as a result. She was diagnosed with complex post-traumatic stress disorder, and as flashbacks and self-harm surfaced, it was made clear that she needed to take a break from schooling and other aspects of her life to \u201chonour the battle of mental health,\u201d she said. Once again, Phelps put her degree on hold, determined to come back stronger, both mentally and emotionally.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cFor me personally, knowing how close I came to ending my own life during those very disparaging moments, I can say that, somehow you get through the dark, dark period and finally you\u2019re no longer surviving, you\u2019re living again. Everyone has stuff they have to work through. I worked through what I had to work through,\u201d she said. \u201cYou don\u2019t do it alone. There are a lot of people who encouraged and supported me. I survived surviving and was able to accomplish all of this. Keep moving and don\u2019t give up no matter what. You will arrive and be glad you did.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When she returned, she resumed her studies and joined<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/brocku.ca\/human-rights\/sexual-violence\/sexual-violence-prevention-committee\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0Brock\u2019s Sexual Violence Prevention Committee<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, finding ways to help others who may also be struggling. She is a passionate advocate for fostering a safe space for survivors on campus and her experiences have played a significant role in shaping her future plans and long-term goals.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After graduating with a three-year pass degree, Phelps now wants to take fourth-year courses to get her honours degree before moving onto a master\u2019s, followed by a PhD. The pursuit of higher education brings Phelps one step closer to her ultimate goal of advocacy and motivational speaking.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Her dream of becoming a photojournalist has grown to include Photovoice, an interactive digital storytelling project through which individuals \u201ctake photos of things that speak to their struggle and it becomes their way of telling their own story,\u201d she said.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Phelps understands first-hand how easily plans can change and offered the following life advice: \u201cDon\u2019t give up if it doesn\u2019t happen when you think it will. It pays not to give up because you never know. Just don\u2019t give up. It\u2019s worth it. It\u2019s really worth it.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Information on Brock&#8217;s mental health resources and additional supports for students is available at<a href=\"https:\/\/brocku.ca\/swac\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\u00a0brocku.ca\/swac\/<\/a>\u00a0and\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/brocku.ca\/bu4u\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">brocku.ca\/bu4u\/<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When Donna Phelps left her hometown of Columbus, Ohio, in 1977 to start a four-year program in California, she never imagined it would be almost 40 years to the day before she graduated.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":47374,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[119,7,3319,37,41,1,4],"tags":[567,5894,123],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/brocku.ca\/brock-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47373"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/brocku.ca\/brock-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/brocku.ca\/brock-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brocku.ca\/brock-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brocku.ca\/brock-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=47373"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/brocku.ca\/brock-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47373\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":47378,"href":"https:\/\/brocku.ca\/brock-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47373\/revisions\/47378"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brocku.ca\/brock-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/47374"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/brocku.ca\/brock-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=47373"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brocku.ca\/brock-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=47373"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brocku.ca\/brock-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=47373"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}