{"id":17769,"date":"2012-08-09T08:32:00","date_gmt":"2012-08-09T13:32:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/brocku.ca\/brock-news\/?p=17769"},"modified":"2012-08-09T08:32:00","modified_gmt":"2012-08-09T13:32:00","slug":"prof-pens-new-book-about-asexuality","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/brocku.ca\/brock-news\/2012\/08\/prof-pens-new-book-about-asexuality\/","title":{"rendered":"Prof pens new book about asexuality"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"attachment_17770\" style=\"width: 514px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-17770\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-large wp-image-17770\" title=\"Tony Bogaert\" src=\"http:\/\/brocku.ca\/brock-news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/08\/tony-bogaert-1-1024x577.jpg\" alt=\"Prof. Tony Bogaert has a written a new book called Understanding Asexuality.\" width=\"504\" height=\"283\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-17770\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Prof. Tony Bogaert has a written a new book called Understanding Asexuality.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Many of us have had that morning-after revelation that sex can, indeed, occur without candlelight, flowers and moonlit serenades.<\/p>\n<p>But romance&#8230; without sex?<\/p>\n<p>That would be par for the course for someone who has no sexual attraction whatsoever to either a man or a woman.<\/p>\n<p>So says <a title=\"Tony Bogaert\" href=\"http:\/\/brocku.ca\/applied-health-sciences\/faculty-directory\/community-health-sciences\/tony-bogaert\" target=\"_blank\">Anthony Bogaert, professor of community health sciences and psychology.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;There&#8217;s evidence that many asexual people are in fact romantically inclined, that they do want to have a love bond with a partner, they do want to have some kind of affectionate intimacy that we define in a romantic kind of way, but not have any need or interest in any kind of sexual bonding with their romantic partner,&#8221; he says.<\/p>\n<p>Bogaert is on the cusp of releasing his book, &#8220;Understanding Asexuality.&#8221; In it, he expands upon his previous work and other researchers&#8217; findings as he explores two groups of people: those who experience no sexual attraction or desire whatsoever and those who experience no sexual attraction to others but still have a &#8220;non-specific&#8221; sex drive that is typically satisfied in solitary sex.<\/p>\n<p>He says that asexual people tend to de-couple romance and sex.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_17771\" style=\"width: 282px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-17771\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-large wp-image-17771  \" title=\"Cover of Understanding Sexuality\" src=\"http:\/\/brocku.ca\/brock-news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/08\/understandingasexualitydj-722x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Tony Bogaert's new book, Understanding Asexuality\" width=\"272\" height=\"385\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-17771\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Tony Bogaert&#39;s new book, Understanding Asexuality<\/p><\/div>\n<p>But that does not mean that asexual people are unable or even unwilling to perform when required. Bogaert says some asexual people are happily married with children.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;They could have certain physical sensations and know that this is pleasurable on some physical level,&#8221; says Bogaert. &#8220;But it doesn&#8217;t mean that they are sexually attracted to whoever or whatever stimulates those sensations. It would just be like, I could have done that with anything or anyone.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Bogaert argues that asexuality is actually a fourth category of sexuality &#8211; gay, straight, bisexual, and asexual &#8211; complete with an &#8220;epiphany&#8221; and identity process similar to what many gay people go through.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;There is a recognition that one is different and then, if you have enough knowledge and information based on the Internet or books you&#8217;ve read or friends, you may actually attach a label to yourself and say, \u2018Ah ha! That&#8217;s what I am. I am asexual,'&#8221; says Bogaert.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;And then you may even have a coming out experience where you actually profess in a public way that you are this.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He estimates that between 0.5 to one percent of the population might be asexual.<\/p>\n<p>In his book, Bogaert talks about how asexuals view sex, art and other aspects of life through a non-sexual lens, seeing sex as being &#8220;mad.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Understanding Asexuality&#8221; is scheduled for release August 15.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Many of us have had that morning-after revelation that sex can, indeed, occur without candlelight, flowers and moonlit serenades.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":17770,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[3,1],"tags":[462,27,29,3329],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/brocku.ca\/brock-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17769"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/brocku.ca\/brock-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/brocku.ca\/brock-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brocku.ca\/brock-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brocku.ca\/brock-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17769"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/brocku.ca\/brock-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17769\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":17774,"href":"https:\/\/brocku.ca\/brock-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17769\/revisions\/17774"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brocku.ca\/brock-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/17770"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/brocku.ca\/brock-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17769"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brocku.ca\/brock-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17769"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brocku.ca\/brock-news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17769"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}