A new school year is nearing, and with it comes a timely opportunity for parents and educators to address bullying before it takes hold.<\/p>\n
Bullying experts in Brock University\u2019s Department of Child and Youth Studies warn the transition from summer to school creates a window when social dynamics are in flux for children. That shift can mean an increased risk of bullying but also presents several opportunities to get ahead of it.<\/p>\n
\u201cBack to school is an exciting time because it can feel like a fresh start,\u201d says Associate Professor Ann Farrell. \u201cBut it can be a little bit nerve-racking for some youth, especially if they have a history of experiencing victimization.\u201d<\/p>\n
Farrell encourages young people to try new strategies for feeling a sense of belonging this year:<\/p>\n
Professor Tony Volk says families play a key role in supporting children when it comes to bullying.<\/p>\n
While there is no single red flag for parents to watch out for, several subtle hints can indicate victimization, such as changes in how students enjoy school, how often they feel ill, lethargy or signs of anxiety. Volk adds that children often hide victimization, requiring parents to pay particular attention to these indicators.<\/p>\n
Just as important for prevention, he says, is parental monitoring of children who have perpetrated bullying. Keeping an ear open for talk about winners and losers or declarations that people \u201cdeserve\u201d their treatment can help parents identify problems.<\/p>\n
In all cases, Volk says consistently asking open-ended questions such as \u201cHow was your day?\u201d gives parents their best chance to notice shifts.<\/p>\n
\u201cKeep regular, open lines of communication and look for patterns that change. Having regular communication, even if it seems trivial, can help you find clues you\u2019d otherwise miss,\u201d he says.<\/p>\n